{"id":3422,"date":"2016-07-12T10:40:46","date_gmt":"2016-07-12T14:40:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/?p=3422"},"modified":"2017-10-09T18:50:34","modified_gmt":"2017-10-09T22:50:34","slug":"part-ix-free-range-parenting-color-indignation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/?p=3422","title":{"rendered":"Girl Meets West #9: Free-Range Parenting and the Color of Indignation"},"content":{"rendered":"

Y\u00e2\u20ac\u2122all, I apologize. It\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s been forever since I started this series; specifically, I began writing about last summer\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s road trip last summer<\/em>, and here I am finishing it up this summer<\/em>. That was certainly not my intent, but my workload during the last year-and-a-half was intense, so I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m just beginning to get back on my feet again. At any rate, here is the first of the two last installments of Girl Meets West.<\/p>\n

(If you are new to this tale, you may want to start here: Part I<\/a>, Part II<\/a>, Part III<\/a>, Part IV<\/a>, Part V<\/a>, Part VI<\/a>, Part VII<\/a>, and Part VIII<\/a>.)<\/p>\n

\"IMG_0883\"<\/a>The next day we said goodbye to our mountain cabin and drove to Santa Fe, New Mexico.<\/p>\n

We had reserved two nights at Bishop\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s Lodge, located just outside the city. What we didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t know was that the better part of the lodge was closed for renovations. (In fact, the entire lodge is now closed with plans to reopen next year.) On the upside, there were only a handful of guests, so we had the run of the place.<\/p>\n

\"IMG_0892\"<\/a>The rooms were spacious,<\/p>\n

\"IMG_0895\"<\/a>with fireplaces both inside the room<\/p>\n

\"IMG_0898\"<\/a>and outside on the private patios. Picturing the lodge in its glory days took little imagination.<\/p>\n

\"IMG_0962\"<\/a>The grounds, while unkempt in spots due to the impending renovations, were beautiful,<\/p>\n

\"IMG_0923\"<\/a>filled with adobe buildings,<\/p>\n

\"IMG_0924\"<\/a>\"IMG_0930\"<\/a>\"IMG_0934\"<\/a>\"IMG_0946\"<\/a>and views to spare.<\/p>\n

\"IMG_0952\"<\/a>\"IMG_0955\"<\/a>\"IMG_0958\"<\/a>This steeple was visible between the trees from several places on the resort, its stark white a dramatic contrast against the multi-colored desert skies.<\/p>\n

The kids took full advantage of the grounds, and spent hours exploring the Southwestern terrain and the creek that ran just below our patio and throughout the property.<\/p>\n

\"IMG_0910\"<\/a>\"IMG_0967\"<\/a>\"IMG_0973\"<\/a>LCB and I spent the afternoon working out on the patio, our thoughts broken only by the occasional bursts of conversation as the kids traveled through the creek below us. It was full-on free range parenting.<\/p>\n

And let me just tell you, those children were nothing short of filthy when they returned at dinnertime, dragging sticks and various findings behind them. We ended up pitching several pairs of socks that refused, despite heavy doses of detergent, to lose their newly acquired deep brown hue.<\/p>\n

The kids opted to spend most of their second day exploring as well. We did manage to pry them from the dirt late that afternoon with the promise of food, and headed into town for dinner and shopping.<\/p>\n

\"IMG_0983\"<\/a>\"IMG_0987\"<\/a>\"IMG_0988\"<\/a>We walked the streets for an hour or so, and then ate dinner on the second story balcony of a restaurant overlooking the city.<\/p>\n

\"IMG_1009\"<\/a>\"IMG_1016\"<\/a>We stopped in Albuquerque the next day on our way back to Phoenix. Baby-Girl decided to fork over three of her dollars to buy a mood ring as a token of her trip. You know, because few things are more reminiscent of the character of Albuquerque than a three dollar mood ring just like the ones at Claire\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s Boutique<\/em>. She put it on in the store and walked with us through several more streets, uncharacteristically quiet. Then, she stopped, stomped one foot, and said, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153This mood ring totally doesn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t work.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d<\/p>\n

Naturally, we never saw this coming, but I refrained from commentary and asked why she thought it didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t work.<\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u0153I just made myself fake cry and it still says I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m happy,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d she replied, sounding ticked.<\/p>\n

My first instinct was to ask her to check to see if there was a color for indignation, but I sensed that this was not what the girl needed from her mother at this juncture.<\/p>\n

Dusk found us back in Phoenix again, where we\u00e2\u20ac\u2122d started almost two weeks earlier,<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>and the next morning found us at the airport, purchasing smoothies before we boarded the plane that would take us eastward and homeward.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Y\u00e2\u20ac\u2122all, I apologize. It\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s been forever since I started this series; specifically, I began writing about last summer\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s road trip last summer, and here I am finishing it up this summer. That was certainly not my intent, but my workload during the last year-and-a-half was intense, so I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m just beginning to get back on my […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[365,4],"tags":[2081,2079,2080,2078,2077],"class_list":["post-3422","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-off-island-stories","category-island-parenting","tag-bishops-lodge","tag-off-island-travels","tag-santa-fe-trips","tag-southwest-with-kids","tag-trips-out-west-with-kids"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3422","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3422"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3422\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3422"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3422"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3422"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}