{"id":29,"date":"2011-04-02T01:51:23","date_gmt":"2011-04-02T05:51:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/?p=29"},"modified":"2011-04-02T22:37:07","modified_gmt":"2011-04-03T02:37:07","slug":"what-my-neighbors-must-think","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/?p=29","title":{"rendered":"What My Neighbors Must Think"},"content":{"rendered":"

Yesterday, it occurred to me that if I were my own neighbor, I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122d probably think I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m crazy. It was a sobering thought.<\/p>\n

Here\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s the thing. I like to think that in most normal daily activities, things like laundry, dishes, meals, homework, and so forth, I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m pretty even-keeled. However, there are a few moments in my job as mother where I guess I become a little less so. Getting everyone out the door in the morning would top the list of highly-emotional moments. Which is why, if I were my own neighbor, I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122d think I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m crazy.<\/p>\n

Like many homes on many islands, ours is on pilings, or stilts. We park our cars under the house, in a garage-like area that is not fully enclosed. These pilings help to protect the house against potential water damage, and since we don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t have the bone-chilling winter temperatures of our hardy northern neighbors, there\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s really less need for an enclosed garage. Many homes on the island, in fact, don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t have any kind of garage or covered parking at all.<\/p>\n

Therein, however, lies my problem, because my get-the-kids-out-the-door-presentable-and-on-time routine is open for public display. And let\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s just say, some days, it might earn me a nomination for the show Supernanny<\/em>.<\/p>\n

There are several factors that contribute to the drama.<\/p>\n

One, I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m not a morning person and my kids go to school earlier than any other elementary kids I know. Don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t role your eyes; this is a valid point. I know people whose kids go to school a full 85 minutes later than mine do. I feel that this is an injustice of staggering proportions.<\/p>\n

Two, because our island is small, many of the daily things that I do are not close by, meaning I want to leave the house prepared with all the items I need to accomplish my errands, since forgetting something (a list, an item to return, a library book) could easily mean another 30 or more miles of additional driving at a later date on non-interstate roads at decidedly non-Chicago speeds.<\/p>\n

Three, I have three small kids that only move fast for chocolate, which, being a highly health-conscious family, we have strict rules about never consuming before sunrise.<\/p>\n

Four, I have a minivan with well over 100,000 miles on it whose side doors stick like nobody\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s business. Okay, this is relatively minor. Except when it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s not.<\/p>\n

But the coup de grace is this.<\/p>\n

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I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m convinced the correct installation of this Car Seat of My Discontent requires a bachelor\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s degree in a highly technical field. My husband has one. I do not.<\/p>\n

Once a week or so, my husband will remove the car seat to take our youngest somewhere in his sporty little money pit that he drives, and, oftentimes, he doesn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t return it fully installed the way he found it. The nerve.<\/p>\n

So enter me, in the middle of the night when all decent children and certain adults should still be sleeping, hurrying down the stairs with pictures of chocolate attached to my back and three kids close behind, thinking we can still be on time if I can have everyone in the van with their backpacks, coats and shoes in the next 48 seconds, and BAM! There\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s the car seat, sitting smugly in my husband\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s locked pretty-boy car.<\/p>\n

Thus, the crazy mom routine commences. For some reason, I start saying all sorts of nonsensical things in a high-pitched, hysterical voice in an effort to not say anything\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 well, bad. \u00e2\u20ac\u02dcCause if I turn into the late, disorganized parent who says bad words, well then, I couldn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t live with myself. So subconsciously, and now consciously, I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve chosen to stick with late, disorganized, and crazy. At least I have standards.<\/p>\n

\u00c2\u00a0Wonder what the neighbors think.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Yesterday, it occurred to me that if I were my own neighbor, I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122d probably think I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m crazy. It was a sobering thought. Here\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s the thing. I like to think that in most normal daily activities, things like laundry, dishes, meals, homework, and so forth, I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m pretty even-keeled. However, there are a few moments in my […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-islandlife","category-island-parenting"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=29"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=29"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=29"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.anislandmom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=29"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}